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I’m a single mom grappling with how to find the time and financial resources to support my son, who was unofficially dx as having ASD at age 16 through the public school system. He was tested with a basic test administered in many public schools. I cannot afford the more sophisticated and specific dx offered by Vanderbilt University in our home city. He turns 18 in February 25. Socially, he’s been suffering to the point I’d say he’s in crisis. His emotional support counselor is self-pay only—completely out of pocket. There are few therapist who specialize in teen males with ASD.

Add to that, my son’s bio father, who I now recognize as highly autistic himself, does not believe ASD is real and will not pay for any form of therapy for our son.

My son’s Dad believes ASD was created to help state/municipal public schools systems draw down more federal dollars.

The dent in my forehead from banging it on the table gets progressively deeper.

Rest assured I have my own counselor to try to cope, but she too is self-pay only and I can only afford the out-of-pocket costs once every five weeks.

My budget is balanced on a razor’s edge.

Yes, we did manage to put away college savings for him in a 529 plan, but my child insists he’s not going to college because he’s sick of the whole system.

Good times.

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I’m a single mom grappling with how to find the time and financial resources to support my son, who was unofficially dx as having ASD at age 16 through the public school system. He was tested with a basic test administered in many public schools. I cannot afford the more sophisticated and specific dx offered by Vanderbilt University in our home city. He turns 18 this coming February 5. Socially, he’s been suffering to the point I’d say he’s in crisis. His emotional support counselor is self-pay only—completely out of pocket. There are few therapist who specialize in teen males with ASD.

Add to that, my son’s bio father, who I now recognize as highly autistic himself, does not believe ASD is real and will not pay for any form of therapy for our son.

My son’s Dad believes ASD was created to help state/municipal public schools systems draw down more federal dollars.

The dent in my forehead from banging it on the table gets progressively deeper.

Rest assured I have my own counselor to try to cope, but she too is self-pay only and I can only afford the out-of-pocket costs once every five weeks.

My budget is balanced on a razor’s edge.

Yes, we did manage to put away college savings for him in a 529 plan, but my child insists he’s not going to college because he’s sick of the whole system.

Good times.

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